Break The Silence... Posted by LOVENMEEE , Saturday, January 8, 2011 at 4:12 PM, in

I love this... he speaks out... something so many of us want to do and are afraid. It is part of the healing process to overcome it.

My Name Is Chris from (Wo)Men Speak Out on Vimeo

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE - MALE CASES(?) Posted by LOVENMEEE , Sunday, July 5, 2009 at 2:40 PM, in

Lovenmeee promotes "NON-VIOLENCE" with everyone. This was pretty interesting to me. Most people are unaware of the abuse of men in our world. Well... except for those men who are the ones being abused. Interesting enough, abuse comes in all forms: physical, verbal, mental, and in some cases financial with men and women. It is a well-known fact that many abusive women resort to using weapons, or wait to catch their spouse unaware before they attack. Many reports included are of girlfriends and/ or wives pouring hot liquids on their husbands or significant others in bed, glass broken on men, men being hit over the head from the back, attacked, cut or burned while they're asleep.


Battered men hide, fearful of being ridiculed, or even persecuted. It's much harder for a man to actually admit that his wife is beating him up. They seem to regard it as a shameful issue and a lot of police actually say to men 'What did you do to make your wife hit you?' or 'Can't you handle your missus?'


This is unacceptable and women thought it only happened to them. There is no reason for abuse toward men or women. There's been a lot of procrastination about the issue with men. Yes there are refuges but if you try and access them you'll find there's not one place for a man and his children. Whether in a household where there is abuse of women or men, it is still happening in front of the children. So I ask women... Are we any better for the physical and mental abuse we do to our men in front of our children? The children are our future. If they grow up seeing the abuse there is a greater chance of the chain continuing. Let's communicate with one another and be a positive influence.
Lovenmeee First

I am pretty blessed and appreciate life as it is today. I am always striving for bigger and better things in life like most but I set myself apart with that statement. I want bigger and better for obvious reasons but also because I think I have a voice in which people listen. Most of my life I have been the optimistic, well-rounded individual that most come to get advice from. Since they always come back I guess it was advice that actually works for them.

I want to help people. I find satisfaction in doing nice things for people. I know, hard to believe but it’s true. Whether at work, in the grocery store, paying a bill, on the web or anywhere, just a few words could help someone have a better day. You have no idea what people are going through in their life when they snap, curse or worse so a few words wouldn’t cost you anything yet might make someone’s day. I LOVE when your least expecting it, someone smiles, winks, gestures something positive and makes a difference in a person’s life. People are taken back by a kind genuine gesture like as if you want something from them. It’s just a conditioned negative world anymore. I am changing that one person at a time but I need help.

I believe in Lovenmeee. It represents your own worth and where you stand with yourself. How can you possibly be at your true full potential if your not loving yourself first? That applies to work, home, recreation, goal, dreams and your community. I know this sounds like a fantasy world but I am very much in reality with my direction. I challenge you to try any or all of this today and with your future. I will continue to share my experiences with you on this site. Since Lovenmeee is just an infant I would like to see more grow with it and be an active part.

LoveNmeee Fashion and Apparel and LoveNmeee First are both still very much in its beginning stages. I realize that I cannot bring LoveNmeee to its full fruition alone. It will take a lot of hard work and team effort to realize the growth of LoveNmeee and all of its ventures. However, my team and I are diligent in overcoming any and all obstacles to see every aspect of LoveNmeee develop, mature and hopefully, create opportunities for others to look, feel and do better as individuals in all that we do. If you wish to invest, contribute or affiliate yourself either your time or resources, I welcome you to a wonderful opportunity in helping us make a difference…
…one woman and/or child at a time.
Thank you for your time hun…
Sincerely,
Cheryl L. Allison – Founder and President

A Role Model for Young Girls To Speak Out!! Posted by LOVENMEEE , Thursday, June 25, 2009 at 1:42 PM, in

I ran across this article and if reflecting on so many of my own friend this happened to when I was young. Young girls are always frightened to speak out and I am determined with Lovenmeee to make it easiler for young girls to have an avenue for them to speak out. I know it's ruff and it takes you right back to the moment it happened. It is so important to be a voice and I just wanted to thank you Jessica White for the strength and courage to do this.


(story by the fash pack)
Swimwear model Jessica White has opened up about her abused past. While out celebrating her 25th birthday this week, the model told press that she is in the process of finishing off her first novel, which draws on elements of her past.

The novel is based around a sexually abused young girl, the model reveals. "I am all about empowering women to bounce back from being abused, because I was abused when I was younger," she says.

Hopefully the novel will encourage discussion and awareness about the issue.


White is already in talks with producers to turn the story into a screenplay, in which she plans to play herself.

LoveNmeee is a company founded and privately owned by myself, Cheryl Allison.

When I first began LoveNmeee, I wanted to make a difference in the world of fashion for women whom the industry tends to ignore as a whole. With LoveNmee Fashion and Apparel, I wanted to use my years of experience in modeling and design to cater to the demographic of plus size women in providing them a clothing line that was intended to help them look and feel beautiful, not only for beholders, but also for themselves. This line is for the “Fine Figured Female”… I say you’re “Fine” how you are.

However, LoveNmeee is about much more than enhancing a woman’s physical attributes. LoveNmeee is also creating a mentoring program as an outlet for helping all women feel just as beautiful and meaningful on the inside. I would like to reach out to Women who may have gone through a traumatic and life altering experience. Which may involve women or adolescence teens of domestic violence, rape, or a similar crime that may take away her self worth or even her will to live.

Personally being a victim of such a situation in my past, I have learned that the recovery process from such an ordeal is difficult and starts with you……because before anyone else can love you, you need to learn to love yourself…as I had to learn to do……LoveNmeee First.